Thursday, August 28, 2008

It is just a problem of a person who doesnt do their own reflection.
It is okay to judge. But when you judge, you should know what to say and what not.
Things like, you criticise straight to their face, saying this and that without considering about what they feel. And especially if you cause embarassment to them infront of a whole lot of people.

Things you should do at least: Be discreet.

Why bother to hurt others with your hurtful comments so as just to make yourself feel better?
Reasons being: Jealousy.

Now, this ring a bell (:
It happened quite alot, its just that people do not realise. And this happens between friends too. Don't mind if it hits on anyone, because that is some fact.
So now: Think before you say. The things you find funny, may not be to others.

Example:
I mean, what would you feel if someone were to say "Ala muka kau bukan nari je tak lawa, hari hari pon tak akan lawa (shouting it straight to you infront of your eye candy)
Think again (:

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And, i apologise that i have to use words which are rather mean to have to describe a person who i barely know. Its already reaching to my maximum tolerance and it is about time for me to stand up for my boyfriend here. It's about time for me to say my piece eventhough he doesn't bother about what and how people judge him. Its not the first time im recieving all this.

I may not have a boyfriend who is as good looking as yours
I may not have the perfect boyfriend who has it all
I may not have a boyfriend who gives me prada, gucci, louis vuitton
I may not have the the kind of boyfriend that all girl would wanna drool about

But yes;
  • I have a boyfriend who cares for me
  • I have a boyfriend who loves me
  • I have a boyfriend who would be proud to introduce me to his friends
  • Who is able to hug me without feeling embarass infront of his friends
  • Who would entertain my mood swings
  • Who would give in to my childish like attitude
  • Who would do small suprises from time to time
  • Who gives me forehead kisses
  • Who console me when i cry despite whatever
  • The one who never give up on me
  • Who could bitch around with me
  • The one who would scold me for my mistakes
  • The one who respects my mom
  • The one who would go angry if i am harsh towards my mom
  • The one who got embarassed through my online journal, who got critics from my friends in the past but yet, still hanging on to me till this day.

I don't need more of anything when i have the above.
And true enough, i am angry when a person who barely knows him judges him for how he look.
"You got to learn to love, before judging"
You think?
I think its so true.

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